A Spirit of Excellence
As I was reading in Judges my eyes fell upon chapter 5 verses 15 and 16: “In the districts of Reuben there was much searching of the heart. Why did you stay among the campfires to hear the whistling for the flocks? In the tribe of Reuben there was much searching of the heart.”
This tugged on my spirit’s curiosity, and I knew there was treasure to be gleaned. Who were these Reubenites? And why did they receive this chastisement? I began to dig back into the history of scripture. Entrenched in my study, I emerged into the land of Gilead, in the company of the Reubenites.
Here we were: shepherding their large flocks. But wait! Gilead? Why are they here? Why abiding in Gilead? I look and see that the Jordan River is only a short distance away. And there, across the river, is the Promised Land! Isn’t that the land they traveled towards for forty years with their fellow Israelites? I couldn’t find answers here. I wasn’t in the right place in history. I needed to rewind.
Next, I found myself in a desert. The atmosphere is, spiritually electric; but this is not a good thing. There is Moses and Aaron, standing before a large crowd. There in front of them were four men, who looked angry, and before them stood a large crowd. What was going on? I realize that some of these men were Reubenites. This was not a good thing. But still, no answer here. Once again I leave this plot to move further back in time.
Finally, here I am, standing in a tent room. There in the middle was an aged man lying on a bed surrounded by men, young and old. He began to lay his hands on each man and speak a blessing on them. I realized this was Jacob. He was sick and dying and the atmosphere was sad and serious. These blessings were obviously very important. There was Joseph, his two sons. There was Reuben, Simeon and Levi, Judah, Zebulun, Issachar, Dan, Gad, Asher, Naphtali, and Benjamin. The twelve sons of the twelve tribes of Israel! I saw why this was where I would find my answer. Caleb was blessing his sons and prophesying not only to their futures, but the future of the nation which would be born from each of his sons. I listened attentively to wait for Reuben’s turn. “Gather around so I can tell you what will happen to you in days to come.” Expectantly I gathered with the brothers to hear his quiet, feeble, but direct voice. “Assemble and listen, sons of Jacob; listen to your father Israel.” The circle around him grew tighter. “Reuben, you are my first born, my might, the first sign of my strength, excelling in honor, excelling in power.” I began to get excited. This man seemed to have it going on! But wait… He wasn’t done. Caleb continued, “Turbulent as the waters, you will no longer excel, for you went up onto your fathers bad, onto my couch and defiled it.” Wow! I began to understand now. The answers began to roll in. No excellence? I realized now that already the trend for these people had been set, by this man who was characterized with indecision and lack of initiative. I remembered he was the brother who didn’t want to see Joseph killed yet, only did small efforts to keep him alive instead of ending the problem all together. He set for his future children, and descendants, a trend in the spirit. I somberly went forward again in time. Back, step by step to where I began.
I returned to the desert with Moses and Aaron, still facing the angry crowd. The four men in front of the crowd speaking were Korah, a Levite also, Dathan, Abiram and On, all three Reubenites. “You have gone too far! The whole community is holy, every one of them. Why then do you set yourselves above the Lord’s assembly?” The men were outraged. I watched for Moses’ response. I was ready for fire to be called down. Who dare go against God’s elect; or the authority that he has ordained? Have these men not learned from the example of Aaron and Miriam? Instead of a rebuke I saw Moses fall face down. “In the morning the Lord will show you who belongs to him and who is holy, he will have that person come near to him.” After Moses confronted them, and challenged them to bring it before the Lord Moses summoned two of the Reubenites: Dathan and Abiram, but they would not come. First they stood before him, allowing another man to speak to him in contempt, and not that their statement was to be tested and followed through with they were backing out and complaining. I saw in two ways, Reuben’s prophecy being fulfilled already. Later, after God proved their fault, the four who stood against him were literally swallowed up in the ground, as well as all their belongings. What a fearful thing it was to stand against God’s anointed! The Israelites were all stirred up in terror.
Next I returned to the fields of Gileal. Instead of tending sheep, this time I was with the leaders of the tribe; standing once again in front of Moses. They were asking Moses to stay in the land before even entering the Promised Land; before experiencing God’s promise. They were settling for less! They went in, fought with their brothers, and when the enemy was defeated, they returned to Gileal. This added even more events characterizing their unwillingness to follow through and excel.
Lastly, I returned to the point I began. I joined Balak and Deborah in the middle of their praises being sung after the defeat of the Canaanite king. “In the districts of Reuben was much searching of the heart,” They sang. What happened? They refused to leave their flocks to fight! They were too comfortable to help their brothers in battle. Deborah recognized this as an issue of the heart, and not their circumstances.
Moses spoke over the Reubenites at the end of his life; that they might live, but that they would be few. This was the result of the conditions of their hearts. Their lack of excellence! Only once after this account is Reuben ever mentioned in history other than a couple references to them in Ezekiel and in Revelation. They didn’t die, but they are few.
What is the condition of your heart? What kind of man are you? Are what will your inheritance be? Excellence matters!
Monday, November 24, 2008
Thursday, November 20, 2008
Song of Songs
Song of Songs:
How many arguments there are; arguments regarding whether Song of Solomon can or cannot be interpreted. Funny how such a simple, small book of the Bible causes such confusion and controversy! Now, I cannot say that as a mere 21 year old woman still learning and growing; that I would hold more knowledge and insight on the fundamental purpose of a book in the Bible. Yet still, may I share my God inspired opinion with you? Forgive me if I accept your agreement and thank you before an answer. For like my parents, I too follow their traits of having opinions and boldly sharing them!
What do I believe the purpose of Song of Songs holds? I believe it has many. But, a full encounter with this book can only come by being open to its obvious AND spiritual interpretation. I see two specific extremes in people encountering this book: 1. People who acknowledge it as a simple love letter. And receive no other purpose or meaning through it than just that. 2. People who open the book and close it in shame of its content; unsure of how to approach a book such as this all together. May I admit that in the beginning I too was the latter of the examples just given.
My journey of exploration in this book came recently when I asked the Lord what he would have me read for study. To my surprise, he spoke and said: “Song of Songs”. I scoffed at the thought. I said to myself: “Surely that was just my insane imagination tricking me”. It is apparent my mindset of this scripture had not yet changed. Why would God want me to read such a book? There’s nothing in the book that is beneficial. Or, so I thought! For why; if it’s in the Bible [which is God breathe and ordained as ALL agree], would it not hold value, and treasures of revelation for the saints like any other book? I knew I was wrong. And after minutes of trying to divert God’s voice to me through other scripture, I knew I needed to obey. And so, I opened it!
Now, come back with me to that moment. That moment when I reluctantly and fearfully opened this book with one eye open, and one eye shut. Open along with me this book, and imagine a light exuding from the pages. This light resembling a sudden stream of sweet revelation the Lord gave me, which he desires to give to you. Let’s now, with excitement, dive in!
As we this book, a story begins to unfold; almost as a fairy tale or romantic novel. But, before we get any further, let me share this “story’s” history: The title in the Hebrew text is: “Solomon’s Song of Songs,” meaning a song by, for, or about Solomon. The phrase “Song of Songs” means the greatest of songs. It is likely that the book was actually written by Solomon. The perspective of this book is written as if through the eyes of a woman. It’s a woman’s voice penned on the pages. So, now, let’s begin this woman’s journey.
Song of Songs 1
Solomon’s Song of Songs: Beloved-2. Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth- for your love is more delightful than wine.3. Pleasing is the fragrance of your perfumes; your name is like perfume poured out. No wonder the maidens love you! 4. Take me away with you- let us hurry! Let the king bring me into his chambers.
Friends-We rejoice and delight in you; we will praise your love more than wine.
Beloved-How right they are to adore you! 5. Dark I am, yet lovely, O daughters of Jerusalem, dark like the tents of Kedar, like the tent curtains of Solomon. 6. Do not stare at me because I am dark, because I am darkened by the sun. My mother’s sons were angry with me and made me take care of the vineyards; my own vineyard I have neglected. 7. Tell me, you whom I love, where you graze your flock and where you rest your sheep at midday. Why should I be like a veiled woman beside the flock of your friends?
Friends-8. If you do not know, most beautiful of women, follow the tracks of the sheep and graze your young goats by the tents of the shepherds.
Lover-9. I liken you, my darling, to a mare harnessed to one of the chariots of Pharaoh. 10. Your cheeks are beautiful with earrings, your neck with strings of jewels. 11. We will make you earrings of gold, studded with silver.
Beloved-12. While the king was at his table, my perfume spread its fragrance. 13. My lover is to me a sachet of Myrrh resting between my breasts. 14. My lover is to me a cluster of Henna blossoms from the vineyards of En Gedi.
Lover-15. How beautiful you are, my darling! Your eyes are doves.
Beloved-16. How handsome you are, my lover! Oh, how charming! And our bed is verdant.
Lover-17. The beams of our house are cedars; our rafters are firs.
….Now how are we supposed to feel about such a chapter? And what are we to glean? Let’s digest this chapter verse, by verse. Obviously, Beloved in this book would be the woman speaking. So, verses 1-4: This woman is speaking of her ardent love for the man in her life. “Your love is more delightful than wine”, is an expression of a deep enjoyment in her relationship with him. “Your name is like perfume poured out”, is another way to say you’re highly esteemed among people, and you’ve earned great respect with man. “No wonder the maidens love you”, she’s in love with a man of high caliber. The maidens were most likely women serving, or dwelling within the court. This would insinuate that he was a man who was very respectful and pleasant towards them, and thus, desirable to them.
So, in a nutshell you could word the Beloved as saying this: “My lover is welcome to me anytime. I desire his presence greatly. He is blessed and highly favored by men.
And what are the friends’ responses to her? JOY! They are ecstatic about the love their friend has and is experiencing. For them to see their love unfold brings them great joy.
Again the beloved speaks in verses 5-7. “Dark I am, yet lovely, O daughters of Jerusalem, dark like the tents of Kedar, like the tent curtains of Solomon.” Why was there need for such a comment? Dark skin in that culture was not desirable. She’s telling the maidens within the court, that despite her appearance, contrary to the world’s opinion, she is still beautiful. Also, the tent curtains were woven from black goat’s hair. “Do not stare at me because I am dark, because I am darkened by the sun. My mother’s sons were angry with me and made me take care of the vineyards; my own vineyards I have neglected.” Her she is giving the reason for her complexion. She’s doing man’s work! Women in those days weren’t commonly found working vineyards as a main occupation. Here’s an interesting note! Her first reference to vineyard is meant to be taken literally. But when she says, “My own vineyard I have neglected”; she speaks not of a literal vineyard, but instead of her complexion. The following verses: “Tell me, you whom I love, where you graze your flock and where you rest your sheep at midday. Why should I be like a veiled woman beside the flocks of your friends?” She’s portraying her lover poetically as a shepherd, and herself as a shepherdess. At midday in those times, it was considered a time for rest. And a “veiled woman”, is another term for a prostitute. What she is saying is, she doesn’t want to search for her lover and look like a prostitute to the other people.
Her friends call her the MOST BEAUTIFUL of women! What a complement to be paid by a friend. Then they continue by instructing her to simply continue her work among the shepherds, and there she’d learn where he was.
Now, the Lover speaks! “I liken you, my darling, to a mare harnessed to one of the chariots of Pharaoh. Your cheeks are beautiful with earrings, your neck with strings of jewels. We will make you earrings of gold, studded with silver.” What a disgusting comment to make to a woman, yes? NO! Not in that time! To be likened to a mare in that time was the equivalent to Theocritus’s praise of the beautiful Helen of Troy. And when he speaks of her being harnessed to one of Pharaoh’s chariots, he’s telling her that she’s stunning, and draws peoples’ attention; she catches peoples’ eye in passing. He proceeds to voice his plans to dote over her, and bless her through gifts. His love for her was deep, and extravagant!
If we continue to read through the chapter, it’s simply the unfolding conversation between the Beloved, and her Lover. We see the ardent love between them both, and the blessing they have in their relationship together. It’s easy to interpret their intentions from here out in this chapter.
So, now, with clearer understanding to what’s actually going on. What can we glean for ourselves in this chapter? Let’s close the book. Close our eyes. And now, let’s imagine ourselves the young woman in this book! [For the men potentially reading this book, I fervently recommend you imagine from the perspective of the Lover! Lol]
Here we are, women of God. We’re serving the church, working full-time jobs, mothering, or in my case, literally doing a man’s work! Wherever we are in life, whatever season, this is the vineyard of our “mother’s sons”. We may not be “beautiful” by worldly standards. But, our characters shine; our hearts glow, and are faces reflect the glory of God, WE ARE BEAUTIFUL. And what godly man of excellence wouldn’t fall ardently in love with such a woman? When God brings us such a love here on earth, we can read example of what to expect, and what it will be like. There will be blessing, desire, deep love and affection. And our friends will rise and call us “blessed.” For those already married: Enjoy your blessing! For those single [myself included], as the woman did, so should we. Continue to labor and serve. God’s called us as a”shepherdess”, to guide and to serve the sheep. Let’s be others-minded, and serve the body of Christ with faithfulness. There is no need to go out and search for our future mate, “prostituting” ourselves in the eyes of those around us. Later in Song of Songs the Beloved states over, and over: “I urge you, daughters of Jerusalem, not to awaken, or arouse love until it so desires.” In other words: Wait for God’s timing! Let him bring it about. Another note:We are the Beloved- the cherished, the sought after, the desired. And the man is the Lover- the one seeking after, loving, desiring,the othe to pursue.
What a promise that’s hidden in this chapter to us women! How exciting it is to know that we are cherished above ALL WOMEN, and more beautiful to boot. If you’ve had low opinion of yourself, look and see what God says about us. Not only was this chapter meant to be taken at its literal translation. It’s allegorical to Christ’s love for us and its nature. We have an unimaginable, intimate love with God also. He seeks, he desires, and he’s totally enamored with us! To such an extent that he sent his only son to die for us. What response should such a reality draw out from within us?
And now to the men: Look and see what God is preparing for you. And the good things he has in-store for you. Seek him first. And then, set your priorities according to Christ’s priorities. Don’t settle for the worlds’ idea of a beautiful woman. Because then, you settle for NOTHING. You miss out on the blessing.
How many arguments there are; arguments regarding whether Song of Solomon can or cannot be interpreted. Funny how such a simple, small book of the Bible causes such confusion and controversy! Now, I cannot say that as a mere 21 year old woman still learning and growing; that I would hold more knowledge and insight on the fundamental purpose of a book in the Bible. Yet still, may I share my God inspired opinion with you? Forgive me if I accept your agreement and thank you before an answer. For like my parents, I too follow their traits of having opinions and boldly sharing them!
What do I believe the purpose of Song of Songs holds? I believe it has many. But, a full encounter with this book can only come by being open to its obvious AND spiritual interpretation. I see two specific extremes in people encountering this book: 1. People who acknowledge it as a simple love letter. And receive no other purpose or meaning through it than just that. 2. People who open the book and close it in shame of its content; unsure of how to approach a book such as this all together. May I admit that in the beginning I too was the latter of the examples just given.
My journey of exploration in this book came recently when I asked the Lord what he would have me read for study. To my surprise, he spoke and said: “Song of Songs”. I scoffed at the thought. I said to myself: “Surely that was just my insane imagination tricking me”. It is apparent my mindset of this scripture had not yet changed. Why would God want me to read such a book? There’s nothing in the book that is beneficial. Or, so I thought! For why; if it’s in the Bible [which is God breathe and ordained as ALL agree], would it not hold value, and treasures of revelation for the saints like any other book? I knew I was wrong. And after minutes of trying to divert God’s voice to me through other scripture, I knew I needed to obey. And so, I opened it!
Now, come back with me to that moment. That moment when I reluctantly and fearfully opened this book with one eye open, and one eye shut. Open along with me this book, and imagine a light exuding from the pages. This light resembling a sudden stream of sweet revelation the Lord gave me, which he desires to give to you. Let’s now, with excitement, dive in!
As we this book, a story begins to unfold; almost as a fairy tale or romantic novel. But, before we get any further, let me share this “story’s” history: The title in the Hebrew text is: “Solomon’s Song of Songs,” meaning a song by, for, or about Solomon. The phrase “Song of Songs” means the greatest of songs. It is likely that the book was actually written by Solomon. The perspective of this book is written as if through the eyes of a woman. It’s a woman’s voice penned on the pages. So, now, let’s begin this woman’s journey.
Song of Songs 1
Solomon’s Song of Songs: Beloved-2. Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth- for your love is more delightful than wine.3. Pleasing is the fragrance of your perfumes; your name is like perfume poured out. No wonder the maidens love you! 4. Take me away with you- let us hurry! Let the king bring me into his chambers.
Friends-We rejoice and delight in you; we will praise your love more than wine.
Beloved-How right they are to adore you! 5. Dark I am, yet lovely, O daughters of Jerusalem, dark like the tents of Kedar, like the tent curtains of Solomon. 6. Do not stare at me because I am dark, because I am darkened by the sun. My mother’s sons were angry with me and made me take care of the vineyards; my own vineyard I have neglected. 7. Tell me, you whom I love, where you graze your flock and where you rest your sheep at midday. Why should I be like a veiled woman beside the flock of your friends?
Friends-8. If you do not know, most beautiful of women, follow the tracks of the sheep and graze your young goats by the tents of the shepherds.
Lover-9. I liken you, my darling, to a mare harnessed to one of the chariots of Pharaoh. 10. Your cheeks are beautiful with earrings, your neck with strings of jewels. 11. We will make you earrings of gold, studded with silver.
Beloved-12. While the king was at his table, my perfume spread its fragrance. 13. My lover is to me a sachet of Myrrh resting between my breasts. 14. My lover is to me a cluster of Henna blossoms from the vineyards of En Gedi.
Lover-15. How beautiful you are, my darling! Your eyes are doves.
Beloved-16. How handsome you are, my lover! Oh, how charming! And our bed is verdant.
Lover-17. The beams of our house are cedars; our rafters are firs.
….Now how are we supposed to feel about such a chapter? And what are we to glean? Let’s digest this chapter verse, by verse. Obviously, Beloved in this book would be the woman speaking. So, verses 1-4: This woman is speaking of her ardent love for the man in her life. “Your love is more delightful than wine”, is an expression of a deep enjoyment in her relationship with him. “Your name is like perfume poured out”, is another way to say you’re highly esteemed among people, and you’ve earned great respect with man. “No wonder the maidens love you”, she’s in love with a man of high caliber. The maidens were most likely women serving, or dwelling within the court. This would insinuate that he was a man who was very respectful and pleasant towards them, and thus, desirable to them.
So, in a nutshell you could word the Beloved as saying this: “My lover is welcome to me anytime. I desire his presence greatly. He is blessed and highly favored by men.
And what are the friends’ responses to her? JOY! They are ecstatic about the love their friend has and is experiencing. For them to see their love unfold brings them great joy.
Again the beloved speaks in verses 5-7. “Dark I am, yet lovely, O daughters of Jerusalem, dark like the tents of Kedar, like the tent curtains of Solomon.” Why was there need for such a comment? Dark skin in that culture was not desirable. She’s telling the maidens within the court, that despite her appearance, contrary to the world’s opinion, she is still beautiful. Also, the tent curtains were woven from black goat’s hair. “Do not stare at me because I am dark, because I am darkened by the sun. My mother’s sons were angry with me and made me take care of the vineyards; my own vineyards I have neglected.” Her she is giving the reason for her complexion. She’s doing man’s work! Women in those days weren’t commonly found working vineyards as a main occupation. Here’s an interesting note! Her first reference to vineyard is meant to be taken literally. But when she says, “My own vineyard I have neglected”; she speaks not of a literal vineyard, but instead of her complexion. The following verses: “Tell me, you whom I love, where you graze your flock and where you rest your sheep at midday. Why should I be like a veiled woman beside the flocks of your friends?” She’s portraying her lover poetically as a shepherd, and herself as a shepherdess. At midday in those times, it was considered a time for rest. And a “veiled woman”, is another term for a prostitute. What she is saying is, she doesn’t want to search for her lover and look like a prostitute to the other people.
Her friends call her the MOST BEAUTIFUL of women! What a complement to be paid by a friend. Then they continue by instructing her to simply continue her work among the shepherds, and there she’d learn where he was.
Now, the Lover speaks! “I liken you, my darling, to a mare harnessed to one of the chariots of Pharaoh. Your cheeks are beautiful with earrings, your neck with strings of jewels. We will make you earrings of gold, studded with silver.” What a disgusting comment to make to a woman, yes? NO! Not in that time! To be likened to a mare in that time was the equivalent to Theocritus’s praise of the beautiful Helen of Troy. And when he speaks of her being harnessed to one of Pharaoh’s chariots, he’s telling her that she’s stunning, and draws peoples’ attention; she catches peoples’ eye in passing. He proceeds to voice his plans to dote over her, and bless her through gifts. His love for her was deep, and extravagant!
If we continue to read through the chapter, it’s simply the unfolding conversation between the Beloved, and her Lover. We see the ardent love between them both, and the blessing they have in their relationship together. It’s easy to interpret their intentions from here out in this chapter.
So, now, with clearer understanding to what’s actually going on. What can we glean for ourselves in this chapter? Let’s close the book. Close our eyes. And now, let’s imagine ourselves the young woman in this book! [For the men potentially reading this book, I fervently recommend you imagine from the perspective of the Lover! Lol]
Here we are, women of God. We’re serving the church, working full-time jobs, mothering, or in my case, literally doing a man’s work! Wherever we are in life, whatever season, this is the vineyard of our “mother’s sons”. We may not be “beautiful” by worldly standards. But, our characters shine; our hearts glow, and are faces reflect the glory of God, WE ARE BEAUTIFUL. And what godly man of excellence wouldn’t fall ardently in love with such a woman? When God brings us such a love here on earth, we can read example of what to expect, and what it will be like. There will be blessing, desire, deep love and affection. And our friends will rise and call us “blessed.” For those already married: Enjoy your blessing! For those single [myself included], as the woman did, so should we. Continue to labor and serve. God’s called us as a”shepherdess”, to guide and to serve the sheep. Let’s be others-minded, and serve the body of Christ with faithfulness. There is no need to go out and search for our future mate, “prostituting” ourselves in the eyes of those around us. Later in Song of Songs the Beloved states over, and over: “I urge you, daughters of Jerusalem, not to awaken, or arouse love until it so desires.” In other words: Wait for God’s timing! Let him bring it about. Another note:We are the Beloved- the cherished, the sought after, the desired. And the man is the Lover- the one seeking after, loving, desiring,the othe to pursue.
What a promise that’s hidden in this chapter to us women! How exciting it is to know that we are cherished above ALL WOMEN, and more beautiful to boot. If you’ve had low opinion of yourself, look and see what God says about us. Not only was this chapter meant to be taken at its literal translation. It’s allegorical to Christ’s love for us and its nature. We have an unimaginable, intimate love with God also. He seeks, he desires, and he’s totally enamored with us! To such an extent that he sent his only son to die for us. What response should such a reality draw out from within us?
And now to the men: Look and see what God is preparing for you. And the good things he has in-store for you. Seek him first. And then, set your priorities according to Christ’s priorities. Don’t settle for the worlds’ idea of a beautiful woman. Because then, you settle for NOTHING. You miss out on the blessing.
Sunday, November 2, 2008
To My Mother
A MOM of Noble Character:
A MOM of noble character who can find? She is worth FAR MORE than rubies. Her husband has FULL confidence in her and lacks NOTHING of value. She brings him good, not harm, ALL the days of her life. She selects wool and flax and works with EAGER hands. She is like the merchant ships, bringing her food from afar. She gets up while it is still dark; she provides food for her family and portions for her servant girls. She considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings she plants a vineyard. She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks. She sees that her trading is profitable, and her lamp does not go out at night. In her hand she holds the distaff and grasps the spindle with her fingers. She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy. When it snows, she has no fear for her household; for all of them are clothed in scarlet. She makes coverings for her bed; she is clothed in fine linen and purple. Her husband is respected at the city gates, where he takes his seat among the elders of the land. She makes linen garments and sells them, and supplies the merchants with sashes. She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come. She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue. She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: “Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all.” Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised. Give her the reward she has earned, and let her words bring her praise at the city gate.
Many would recognize this as the Proverbs 31 woman; a WIFE of noble character. However, I have found an equal substitute. If you read this scripture, it’s apparent that a large part of what makes a woman so honorable is the fact that she is an excellent mother. I say all this to state a specific point:
I HAVE A MOTHER OF NOBLE CHARACTER
Rubies are the rarest, most precious of all jewels. It is also the hardest of all minerals excepting the Diamond. In essence, this verse is stating the immeasurable value of such a woman as well as the quality of such a woman. In the 21 years of knowing my mother, NEVER have I seen anything but honor and pride exuding from my father’s mouth for my mom. They’ve been married nearly 22 years, and the look from my father’s eyes has never faded. It’s the look of love, admiration, and the sheer joy of the blessing she’s brought him in marriage. In the 21 years of knowing her NEVER have I seen her lazy or idle. The weight of the example she sets over my life is one ONLY God can mold in me. To be like her in any fashion, shape, or form requires from me, a dedicated heart relying on him; just as it was required of my mother. I have watched as she’s set luxuries aside, and quiet time aside, to feed, clothe, teach, discipline, spend time with, play, pray, and simply be with her children. She’s the servant of ALL servants, laying down her life for the good of her family. In the 21 years of watching and learning from her, I have seen her relationship with God growing, growing in her, and growing those around her. I have watched as she’s done all physically possible to see that we have food to eat, or clothes to wear… And I have also watched her cry out to God and trust that he’ll provide. And I have seen him hear, and answer those prayers without fail. My father is a strong leader, the purest example of a true man. The man I love deepest on this earth. In the 21 years I’ve been alive, I have watched him and my mom walk with God faithfully, never failing. I have watched them serve, serve the church, serve the saints, the sinners, the poor and the needy, never looking selfishly to see anyone meet their own needs. And when times got hard, or when there was persecution. My mom’s strong heart and loving hands were always faithfully folded in dads as support. Not once did I see her complain, not once did I ever hear a negative faithless word from her mouth. Not once was there any questioning of my father’s or God’s ability to provide. In the 21 years I watched and learned from my mom, I’ve learned what a deep walk with God is, and what true love as a wife looks like. I’ve learned what sacrifice takes, and means for a mother. For 21 years I saw my mother gladly give up simple pleasures to see her household blessed. And I have seen her blessed in the process. I have watched in pride my mother pour out her God given knowledge to the masses, and carry herself in a manner worthy of praise. She’s never invested money on herself in any kind of excess. Few of the items she owns were bought, but were given. However, you can’t find a more beautiful, well put together, stylish mother around! In the 21 years of being taught, trained, and loved by my mother, I have been blessed beyond measure and beyond words. Yes, Charm IS deceptive… Beauty IS fleeting… But a woman who fears the Lord WILL be praised. Such a woman is more beautiful and charming than all other women on earth combined.
MOM- Thank you for 21 years of your life which you dedicated to me in sacrifice. I have seen your hard work, your patience, your love, and your tears. I have heard your prayers over me, and seen the journals with my name on it, filled I’m sure with prayers and dreams over my life. Thank you for loving me through the difficult seasons. Thank you for showing me how to be a woman worthy of praise, a woman of noble character. Thank you for being a mother, and a best friend. Of all the women in my life, NO ONE will fill that special role, the role of a best friend and confidant. You know me better than anyone else will. You know things no one else will. I can share with you anything, and everything, and with you there are no secrets. This is something NO OTHER woman will EVER fill. Thank you for seeking God’s voice, for being his voice for me in so many circumstances. Your wisdom is beyond your years, and your advice I hold above anyone else’s. And mostly, thank you for showing me what a true, intimate, deep relationship with God is. I know him as I do, and I’m growing as I am only by your example and inspiration. I want to bless, lead and teach others with that same anointing as you which comes from truly KNOWING God. For all this and more I thank you.
On your birthday: I wish you MANY years of blessing. That God would bless you in abundance surpassing the extent of the blessing you’ve been to us. I pray that our relationship continue to grow. And I also pray that he fulfill in this season the desires of your heart as he’s promised. I love you with ALL my heart.
Your daughter
Sarah
A MOM of noble character who can find? She is worth FAR MORE than rubies. Her husband has FULL confidence in her and lacks NOTHING of value. She brings him good, not harm, ALL the days of her life. She selects wool and flax and works with EAGER hands. She is like the merchant ships, bringing her food from afar. She gets up while it is still dark; she provides food for her family and portions for her servant girls. She considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings she plants a vineyard. She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks. She sees that her trading is profitable, and her lamp does not go out at night. In her hand she holds the distaff and grasps the spindle with her fingers. She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy. When it snows, she has no fear for her household; for all of them are clothed in scarlet. She makes coverings for her bed; she is clothed in fine linen and purple. Her husband is respected at the city gates, where he takes his seat among the elders of the land. She makes linen garments and sells them, and supplies the merchants with sashes. She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come. She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue. She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: “Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all.” Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised. Give her the reward she has earned, and let her words bring her praise at the city gate.
Many would recognize this as the Proverbs 31 woman; a WIFE of noble character. However, I have found an equal substitute. If you read this scripture, it’s apparent that a large part of what makes a woman so honorable is the fact that she is an excellent mother. I say all this to state a specific point:
I HAVE A MOTHER OF NOBLE CHARACTER
Rubies are the rarest, most precious of all jewels. It is also the hardest of all minerals excepting the Diamond. In essence, this verse is stating the immeasurable value of such a woman as well as the quality of such a woman. In the 21 years of knowing my mother, NEVER have I seen anything but honor and pride exuding from my father’s mouth for my mom. They’ve been married nearly 22 years, and the look from my father’s eyes has never faded. It’s the look of love, admiration, and the sheer joy of the blessing she’s brought him in marriage. In the 21 years of knowing her NEVER have I seen her lazy or idle. The weight of the example she sets over my life is one ONLY God can mold in me. To be like her in any fashion, shape, or form requires from me, a dedicated heart relying on him; just as it was required of my mother. I have watched as she’s set luxuries aside, and quiet time aside, to feed, clothe, teach, discipline, spend time with, play, pray, and simply be with her children. She’s the servant of ALL servants, laying down her life for the good of her family. In the 21 years of watching and learning from her, I have seen her relationship with God growing, growing in her, and growing those around her. I have watched as she’s done all physically possible to see that we have food to eat, or clothes to wear… And I have also watched her cry out to God and trust that he’ll provide. And I have seen him hear, and answer those prayers without fail. My father is a strong leader, the purest example of a true man. The man I love deepest on this earth. In the 21 years I’ve been alive, I have watched him and my mom walk with God faithfully, never failing. I have watched them serve, serve the church, serve the saints, the sinners, the poor and the needy, never looking selfishly to see anyone meet their own needs. And when times got hard, or when there was persecution. My mom’s strong heart and loving hands were always faithfully folded in dads as support. Not once did I see her complain, not once did I ever hear a negative faithless word from her mouth. Not once was there any questioning of my father’s or God’s ability to provide. In the 21 years I watched and learned from my mom, I’ve learned what a deep walk with God is, and what true love as a wife looks like. I’ve learned what sacrifice takes, and means for a mother. For 21 years I saw my mother gladly give up simple pleasures to see her household blessed. And I have seen her blessed in the process. I have watched in pride my mother pour out her God given knowledge to the masses, and carry herself in a manner worthy of praise. She’s never invested money on herself in any kind of excess. Few of the items she owns were bought, but were given. However, you can’t find a more beautiful, well put together, stylish mother around! In the 21 years of being taught, trained, and loved by my mother, I have been blessed beyond measure and beyond words. Yes, Charm IS deceptive… Beauty IS fleeting… But a woman who fears the Lord WILL be praised. Such a woman is more beautiful and charming than all other women on earth combined.
MOM- Thank you for 21 years of your life which you dedicated to me in sacrifice. I have seen your hard work, your patience, your love, and your tears. I have heard your prayers over me, and seen the journals with my name on it, filled I’m sure with prayers and dreams over my life. Thank you for loving me through the difficult seasons. Thank you for showing me how to be a woman worthy of praise, a woman of noble character. Thank you for being a mother, and a best friend. Of all the women in my life, NO ONE will fill that special role, the role of a best friend and confidant. You know me better than anyone else will. You know things no one else will. I can share with you anything, and everything, and with you there are no secrets. This is something NO OTHER woman will EVER fill. Thank you for seeking God’s voice, for being his voice for me in so many circumstances. Your wisdom is beyond your years, and your advice I hold above anyone else’s. And mostly, thank you for showing me what a true, intimate, deep relationship with God is. I know him as I do, and I’m growing as I am only by your example and inspiration. I want to bless, lead and teach others with that same anointing as you which comes from truly KNOWING God. For all this and more I thank you.
On your birthday: I wish you MANY years of blessing. That God would bless you in abundance surpassing the extent of the blessing you’ve been to us. I pray that our relationship continue to grow. And I also pray that he fulfill in this season the desires of your heart as he’s promised. I love you with ALL my heart.
Your daughter
Sarah
Saturday, November 1, 2008
"Count it All Joy"
We remember last Sundays message. "Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds." James 1:2
Don't we all love the opportunities God gives us to put our words into practice. It would seem to me that each person has been given such an opportunity this week. Me, in many ways.
This is what I have learned:
How precious is it to have a God who will break you down all for the purpose of the pleasure of HAVING to lean on him. He wants me to know the intimate joys of relationship with him. How amazing is it to have a God who'll place me in situations beyond myself all to see his glorious hand at work. God knows how priceless a relationship with him is... He knows my deepest needs beyond my desires. And if it means God must break my heart to show me more of himself.. Then, enable me Lord, to have my heart broken, and broken, and broken again, all for the sake of knowing you. And making me pliable, useable in your kingdom. What have I learned this week? Christ is the purpose of living and my sufficiency is in Him. Pain brings forth eternal pleasure. Praise God.
"Know ye not that...ye are not your own?" {#1Corinthians 6:19}
There is no such thing as a private life—"a world within the world"—for a man or woman who is brought into fellowship with Jesus Christ’s sufferings. God breaks up the private life of his saints, and makes it a thoroughfare for the world on the one hand and for himself on the other. No human being can stand that unless he is identified with Jesus Christ. We are not sanctified for ourselves, we are called into the fellowship of the gospel, and things happen which have nothing to do with us, God is getting us into fellowship with himself. Let him have his way, if you do not, instead of being of the slightest use to God in his redemptive work in the world, you will be a hindrance and a clog.
The first thing God does with us is to get us based on rugged reality until we do not care what becomes of us individually as long as he gets his way for the purpose of his redemption. Why should not we go through heartbreaks? Through those doorways God is opening up ways of fellowship with his Son. Most of us fall and collapse at the first grip of pain; we sit down on the threshold of God’s purpose and die away of self-pity, and all so called Christian sympathy will aid us to our death bed. But God will not. He comes with the grip of the pierced hand of his Son, and says—"Enter into fellowship with me; arise and shine." If through a broken heart God can bring his purposes to pass in the world, then thank him for breaking your heart.
Don't we all love the opportunities God gives us to put our words into practice. It would seem to me that each person has been given such an opportunity this week. Me, in many ways.
This is what I have learned:
How precious is it to have a God who will break you down all for the purpose of the pleasure of HAVING to lean on him. He wants me to know the intimate joys of relationship with him. How amazing is it to have a God who'll place me in situations beyond myself all to see his glorious hand at work. God knows how priceless a relationship with him is... He knows my deepest needs beyond my desires. And if it means God must break my heart to show me more of himself.. Then, enable me Lord, to have my heart broken, and broken, and broken again, all for the sake of knowing you. And making me pliable, useable in your kingdom. What have I learned this week? Christ is the purpose of living and my sufficiency is in Him. Pain brings forth eternal pleasure. Praise God.
"Know ye not that...ye are not your own?" {#1Corinthians 6:19}
There is no such thing as a private life—"a world within the world"—for a man or woman who is brought into fellowship with Jesus Christ’s sufferings. God breaks up the private life of his saints, and makes it a thoroughfare for the world on the one hand and for himself on the other. No human being can stand that unless he is identified with Jesus Christ. We are not sanctified for ourselves, we are called into the fellowship of the gospel, and things happen which have nothing to do with us, God is getting us into fellowship with himself. Let him have his way, if you do not, instead of being of the slightest use to God in his redemptive work in the world, you will be a hindrance and a clog.
The first thing God does with us is to get us based on rugged reality until we do not care what becomes of us individually as long as he gets his way for the purpose of his redemption. Why should not we go through heartbreaks? Through those doorways God is opening up ways of fellowship with his Son. Most of us fall and collapse at the first grip of pain; we sit down on the threshold of God’s purpose and die away of self-pity, and all so called Christian sympathy will aid us to our death bed. But God will not. He comes with the grip of the pierced hand of his Son, and says—"Enter into fellowship with me; arise and shine." If through a broken heart God can bring his purposes to pass in the world, then thank him for breaking your heart.
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